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How to Pet a Dog Properly? 

February 27, 2023

Dogs are man’s best friend, but it’s important to understand that not all dogs like to be petted in the same way. In fact, improper petting can lead to anxiety, aggression, and even biting. So, if you want to pet a dog, it’s important to know how to do it properly. In this article, we’ll discuss the dos and don’ts of petting a dog, so you can build a positive relationship with your furry friend.

Author:

Ing. Mgr. Anna Isakova

Dog Behavior & Welfare Specialist | Trick, Fitness & Agility Trainer

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Dog’s Body Language

Dogs communicate through body language, so it’s important to understand what they’re trying to tell you. Signs that a dog is uncomfortable with petting include:

  • Stiff body posture
  • Raised fur
  • Dilated pupils
  • Growling or snarling
  • Baring teeth
  • Tail tucked between the legs

If you notice any of these signs, it’s best to leave the dog alone.

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Approach Dog Slowly

Approaching a dog in a calm and non-threatening manner can help put them at ease. Avoid making sudden movements or loud noises that can startle them. Instead, move slowly and speak in a soft, gentle voice.

Ask Permission

Not all dogs are comfortable with strangers, so it’s important to ask the owner’s permission before petting a dog. The owner knows their dog best and can tell you whether or not their dog is friendly and approachable.

How to Pet a Dog

When petting a dog, it’s important to use slow, gentle strokes. Avoid petting them on the head, as this can be intimidating. Instead, pet them on the chest or the back of the neck. If the dog seems to enjoy the petting, you can gradually move to other areas like their back or sides.

Petting Style Speed ⚡️ Pressure ? Effect on Excitement ? Effect on Stress ?
Patting ? Fast-paced ⏩ Light pressure ✋ Increases excitement ? Increases stress ?
Rubbing ? Slow-paced ⏪ Firm pressure ? Reduces excitement ? Reduces stress ?
Scratching ? Fast-paced ⏩ Firm pressure ? Increases excitement ? Increases stress ?
Massaging ? Slow-paced ⏪ Light pressure ✋ Reduces excitement ? Reduces stress ?

Things to Avoid

There are a few things to avoid when petting a dog:

  • Don’t approach a dog from behind
  • Don’t make direct eye contact
  • Don’t hug or kiss the dog
  • Don’t pet them on the head
  • Don’t pull on their ears or tail
  • Don’t startle them with sudden movements or loud noises

Conclusion

Petting a dog is a great way to bond with your furry friend, but it’s important to do it properly. By understanding their body language, approaching them calmly, and petting them gently, you can build a positive relationship with your dog. Remember to always ask the owner’s permission before petting a dog, and to avoid any actions that could make them uncomfortable.

Can I pet any dog I see?

No, it’s important to ask the owner’s permission before petting a dog.

Why shouldn’t I pet a dog on the head?

Petting a dog on the head can be intimidating for them.

Is it okay to hug a dog?

No, hugging can make a dog uncomfortable or anxious.

How do I know if a dog wants to be petted?

Look for signs of relaxation, such as a wagging tail or a relaxed body posture.

Is it safe to pet a dog I don’t know?

It’s best to ask the owner’s permission before petting any dog, even if you don’t know them.

Can petting a dog reduce my stress?

Yes, petting a dog has been shown to reduce stress and anxiety in humans.

What should I do if a dog doesn’t want to be petted?

Respect their boundaries and leave them alone. Some dogs simply don’t enjoy being petted, and that’s okay.

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